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| Wife discipline her husband << But how
Some customs and traditions - is laudable - may be imposed on the girl (a blockade) to choose their life partner as you wish or see in their dreams and خيالاتها .. Vabannt cousin!!
Some of these habits - Bad behavior - perhaps deprived the girl to look at her fiancé in their first encounter and Outs curtain only when you see on the marital bed, perhaps surprised by a man who had hoped and wished!!
And wives living in Oknav pairs in happiness and stability and then after a period of time surprised one of them with a change in the behavior of her husband and treated her!!
My husband smoked!! My husband does not pray!! My husband nervous and stubborn!! I discovered that my husband cheating on me!! Hit me .. My husband skimpy .. I always come out with his friends and leave me and my children alone!! Saucy tongue ..!!
To other broad list raises many wives on their husbands in a suit and announced explicitly Taasthen in luck husbands!!
Here are some wives stands either Desperate scarring luck and full of bitterness stay for social or physical pressure or something else, and some of them have made an end to the suffering of divorce and separation from her husband and spinsterhood constraints satisfaction and divorce the rest of life in the hope!!
The question here is: Does a wife's role in disciplining her husband?! Is it that difficult to change or refines the wife of her husband's behavior?!
The Quran referred to the role of the wife in the discipline and discipline to create her husband, And civility here's what we can be expressed for change and reform behavior, God said: "The woman feared her husband نشوزا or reluctance no sin on them that their Asaleha Salha Solh best selves brought stinginess though improved on you, Allah was Aware of what ye do (128)"
Hence we know that the wife an important role in refining the behavior of her husband and discipline, and to play such a role that texture behavior roads wise conductive to change or refinement; Here is Ali to join the wives of some of these methods and attributes important that open their horizons in a positive dealings and behavior change - deviant - her husband!!
Beginning:
Should be aware of all the wife that married life is predominantly but lasts a المصابرة and overlooked and tolerance has proved a study of our society that nearly 80% of the marital relations based on patience and trying to adapt, and that many of them had returned to the back and the best of what I chose this partner! !
Feeling women naturally years of life and with them from shared this concern, which paid to trying to adapt her life to ensure a measure of stability and contentment.
Of the most important methods of discipline and refinement of behavior: Sense of responsibility change The wife who stands at the limits of shock behavior of her husband and no sense of responsibility for change, which means exacerbate this behavior to other behaviors, and family members affected by such behavior.
It is therefore most important thing the wife has the will and determination to change the behavior Avenue with her husband and feel their responsibility towards change Hmaalsloc first step in the change will begin!!
Until they change what is in themselves!
It is the next step after the will and determination to change, and such a great base teaches them the Koran as a year moving "God does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves" Fabdi first reform yourself .. Nor was an ambush bugs and shortcomings in yourself ..
Some advances says: I see the effect of my sins in the creation of my wife and my mount!
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